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I wish we had some sort of marriage counselling during our dating times so that we can really sort out or differences and work them out during the steady dating times and not feel trapped while preparing for the wedding day,the big day.
I feel confused now and I think I'm getting the cold feet.That's just how I feel now instead of being a happy bride and enjoying the prep times.
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WARNING SIGNS
> Persistent doubt about a conflict between you and your fiance
> Being withdrawn or grumpy. This can indicate second thoughts that you
are not articulating
> Indecision about choosing a date, location etc
> Lack of Interest in wedding planning
ANALYZING THE ANGST: ASK YOURSELF THE FOLLOWING QUESTIONS
> Can you resolve your difference?
> Have you sowed your wild oats?
> Are you stressed about the wedding or about the marriage itself?
GETTING GUIDANCE
> Start counseling as early in the planning stages as possible - before
the invitations are ordered
If a bride-to-be identifies her feelings and realizes her frozen feet
cannot be thawed, BRIDES magazine recommends the following on breaking the
news and tips on how to undo the "I do's."
