Wednesday, April 28, 2010

2nd round of counselling...


from http://www.cartoonstock.com/directory/m/marriage_guidance_counseling.asp

Just gone through our second marriage counseling session :Personal Relationships.
I am aptly described as someone who bottles up emotion,yeah a people pleaser,I bottle up emotion then suddenly burst in anger or frustration even depression due to these bottled up resentments,regrets and unmet needs.It also stems from my inability to communicate my feelings well,but I am full of hope that with God I can change this and deal with it so that Jesse and me will have a healthy married life.

Tuesday, April 27, 2010

someone obnoxious


this is from http://www.allposters.com/-sp/Rude-Obnoxious-or-Ornery-Posters_i2881879_.htm

I happen to be in the elevator with a very obnoxious lady who probably have tired to malign everyone she sees "nagmamaganda muka namang bakla" was one of her statements...I have a hint that she also threw one at me that's why i'm blogging about it hahaha.

Tuesday, April 20, 2010

important thoughts

"if a thought or idea is important, write it down,if not release it to the universe..."

1. I wish people will not get credit for my work and make me look dumb.
2. I hope I can write down how my ideal wedding day would look like soon.
3. I hope that with God,I can take care of Jesse especially in this critical time of our engagement.

Sometimes I just can't help but get discouraged at work...

Thursday, April 1, 2010

Wedding preps...

Just bought my wedding shoes at Okasyon in Galeria today so happee...it was a gift from my sister.It kinda looks like this:

we're almost 50% ready for the wedding ...almost there...





food tasting,floor plan and photographer

Friday, December 11, 2009

Hope deferred makes the heart sick, but a longing fulfilled is a tree of life.


it's been 12 days since my sweetheart popped up a ring to ask me to marry him, and i am so happy about it.we're now in our planning the wedding stage and though it's tough on the budget, we try to be cheerful and enjoy every minute of our engagement time together until the day when we can bring glory to God by being one.

Tuesday, October 13, 2009

2 Cor.11:28-29

28Besides everything else, I face daily the pressure of my concern for all the churches. 29Who is weak, and I do not feel weak? Who is led into sin, and I do not inwardly burn?

going back a few more verses starting v16, the title of this passage is "Paul boasts about his sufferings"

boyfriend preached the word tonight at the devo and this is what my notes look like:

point 1:"who are weak?"

referencing v20 (20In fact, you even put up with anyone who enslaves you or exploits you or takes advantage of you or pushes himself forward or slaps you in the face. 21To my shame I admit that we were too weak for that!)

- the people were too weak to react
- Paul wants to warn,prepare and to strengthen them in this letter
- he attended to their spiritual needs after meeting their felt needs

thought questions:

1. what concerns do we have in the ministry?region?sector?church?

- though Paul have many issues, he considered the needs of the body as a whole
- we cannot isolate ourselves,everyone is important!
references: 1 Pet 2:9,1 Cor 12:26

2. who is weak?
when was the last time you sat down to counsel?
what's the next step?
do you know someone who has overcome the same situation?
have you get together with that person?

-Paul enumerated what he'd gone through,he never gave up helping the churches,let's imitate his heart!

point 2: who is made to stumble and do not inwardly burn?

(the effect of sin to others and what we can do about it)

- Paul felt the needs of other disciples
- looking back ,what was our initial reaction towards the weak disciple?
- how would Jesus respond to that? he would have challenged and encouraged him!
- since we are imitating Jesus,who loved those who crucified him and forsook him, let's do the same to the weak, who might turn their backs on us as well ,but let's try to restore them back to Jesus.


let's not waste this great opportunity to attend to, not just the felt needs of the families who suffered in the calamity, but also their spiritual needs.

tiring but fun Sunday



After our Sunday Service at the UP Lagoon, we went to Marikina to help out in the cleaning but since my body clock is used to sleeping in the afternoon,I was easily tired.I'm glad that me and bf can do things like that together.

We went to the movies after that, ( I took a shower first of course because it's me and my boyfriend's date)and i thought I'm gonna doze off in the cinema. We watched G-Force,it's so adorable and funny, I hate the roaches they were big in the 3D glasses ,yuck.I enjoyed it I should say.